How can I play “On the boat” with my child?

By Down Syndrome Digital ·

Suggested age: 0–3 months

About this activity

Activity: On the boat. a short, child-led play idea for children with Down syndrome aged 0–3 months. Follow your child’s cues and enjoy the activity at their pace.

These steps are invitations to play, not therapy or a milestone test. Choose a comfortable, stable position, supervise closely, and pause whenever your child needs a break.

What can this activity invite?

This activity may offer opportunities to notice:

• Lift and hold up your head.

• Turn it to the side.

• Look around at objects nearby.

What do I need for this activity?

A comfortable, stable place to play and the familiar items named in the steps. Choose materials made for your child’s age and ability; keep small parts, loose strings, plastic bags, and balloons away from babies and young children.

How do I play this activity?

1. Place your baby in a bouncer seat (about a 45° incline) or lay them on your tilted legs

On the boat, step 1

Attract their attention by talking and smiling. Watch until they show interest in your face

2. Gently sway your baby side to side in your arms while singing a rhythmic lullaby

On the boat, step 2

Gently sway your baby side to side in your arms while singing a rhythmic lullaby.

3. Try this together

On the boat, step 3

When rocking your baby on the side where their head rests, lift your arms a bit higher and pause for a few seconds. Your baby will try to lift and hold their head up.

Frequently asked questions

Does my child need to finish every step?

No. Follow your child’s interest and stop whenever they need a break. There is no correct pace or required outcome.

What if my child is not interested today?

That is okay. Pause, try another activity, or return another day. Looking away or turning away is a cue to give your child space.

How long should we play?

There is no set duration. A short, comfortable moment is enough; stop if your child seems tired, distressed, or uncomfortable.

Is this therapy or a developmental assessment?

No. This is a play invitation, not therapy, a milestone target, or an assessment. It does not replace advice from your child’s clinicians.

Can I adapt this activity for my child?

Yes. Keep it comfortable and child-led. For questions about feeding, oral-motor skills, bath safety, positioning, or movement, use guidance from your child’s own care team.