How Can I Play a Give-and-Take Rattle Game with My Baby with Down Syndrome?
By Down Syndrome Digital ·
Suggested age: 6–10 months
What is the “Give and Take” rattle activity?
The source describes taking turns with a rattle and lists the activity for ages 6–10 months. This child-led version invites a shared back-and-forth moment; it is not a test of whether your baby follows a request or lets go on cue.
What can this activity invite?
• Looking toward a familiar toy
• Hearing a gentle sound
• Reaching or holding a toy at a comfortable pace
• Sharing a pause or turn with a caregiver
What do I need for this turn-taking game?
Choose one intact toy labelled as suitable for your baby’s age, such as a securely made rattle or a soft toy. Check for loose pieces, beads, cords, or damage. Play on a clear floor mat in a position your baby already manages comfortably.
How do I play the “Give and Take” game?
1. Make a comfortable play space
Place your awake baby on a clear floor mat in a position they manage safely. Stay close and support them as needed; do not use a bouncer or leave them unattended in a seat.
2. Offer the toy
Hold the toy within comfortable reach and wait. Let your baby decide whether to look, reach, or touch it.
3. Take your turn
If your baby is interested, show a gentle shake or sound with the toy in your own hands. Say “my turn,” then pause.
4. Invite your baby’s turn
Offer the toy again and say “your turn” if you like. Let your baby choose whether to reach or hold it; never move their wrist or hand for them.
5. Let the game end naturally
If your baby releases the toy, you can take a turn and offer it back. If they keep holding it, do not pry it away—pause, use a second safe toy, or finish the game.
How do I keep this activity safe?
Stay close and supervise, especially if your baby mouths toys. Use only toys designed for your baby’s age, inspect them before play, and put away damaged toys or anything with loose or tethered parts. Keep this play on the floor or in another position your baby already manages safely.
Frequently asked questions
Does my baby need to give the toy back?
No. Your baby does not need to follow a request or release the toy. Wait for a natural pause, use another toy, or end the game.
Should I move my baby’s hand to make the rattle shake?
No. Model the action yourself, then let your baby choose whether to reach or move.
What if my baby mouths the toy?
Use only a toy labelled as safe for your baby’s age and for mouthing, supervise closely, and stop using it if it becomes damaged or has a loose part.