How to Help a Baby with Down Syndrome Reach for a Toy
By Down Syndrome Digital ·
Suggested age: 6–10 months
What is the reach-and-grab activity?
Reach and grab is a short, supervised play activity for babies with Down syndrome aged 6–10 months. Offer a baby-safe toy while your baby is comfortably supported, then give them time to look, reach, and explore it.
What can this activity invite?
• Looking toward a sound or toy
• Reaching and grasping
• Exploring a toy with one or both hands
• Taking turns with a caregiver
What do I need for this activity?
Choose one or two large, lightweight toys made for your baby’s age, with no loose or detachable parts. Play on a clear floor mat, or use a supportive seat only as directed by its manufacturer. A bouncer or seat must stay on the floor with its harness used as directed; never place it on a table, counter, or other raised surface.
How do I play reach and grab?
1. Settle in safely
Keep your baby awake and within arm’s reach. Let them play on the floor, or use a suitable seat exactly as its instructions describe. Do not place your baby in a sitting position they cannot comfortably maintain.
2. Show one toy
Hold a toy where your baby can see it. If it makes a sound, give it a gentle shake and name it: “Here’s the bell—ding, ding.” Pause so your baby can look or listen.
3. Wait for a reach
Place the toy within your baby’s comfortable reach. Let them decide whether to reach, touch, or grasp it. Avoid moving their hand for them.
4. Take turns
When your baby is ready, hold out an open hand and invite them to share the toy. If they keep holding it, let them enjoy it; you can model a turn with a second toy instead.
Keep play safe and enjoyable
Stay within arm’s reach and check toys for damage before play. Follow any seat or bouncer instructions, including its age, weight, and harness guidance, and keep it on the floor. Do not use small household objects as toys.
Frequently asked questions
What age is reach and grab for?
The source activity lists this game for babies aged 6–10 months. Use your baby’s cues rather than expecting a particular skill.
Can I use a bouncer?
Only if it is appropriate for your baby and used exactly as its manufacturer directs. Keep it on the floor, use the harness as directed, and supervise closely. A floor mat is another option.
Should I guide my baby’s hand to the toy?
Let your baby reach in their own way. You can bring the toy closer, but do not force or move their arm.
What if my baby does not give the toy back?
That is fine. Offer another toy for a turn or end the game. Sharing is an invitation, not a requirement.